First thing is that I havent read "men are from mars and women are from venus".If there is any similarity then think of it as John Gray and I had a common great great great grandfather.
There are many people who support femminism and many are on the other side of the world,but actually there is nothing like femminism.Everything that we do is actually guided by women.
Men are actually fools trying make a statement everywhere they go .Reason for them to be such "I am the boss" is their male ego.
Now,let us see what exactly is the MALE EGO well male ego is nothing but a reaction of Female attraction(stop for moment and think deep ,its true).Just because he is attracted towards she,he needs "to prove himself","Be the man" etc. etc.
Well this is somewhat hard to understand that attraction results in ego not submission.This is what leads to the fact that men are fools.This is the reason why some crushes dont turn into relationships.
Men actually have no ego,no self,More than 99% of male species is under influnce of some emotion.Source of which is offcourse some female.
Now lets ask some questions to yourself..
Why you wanna be successful?
Why you wanna have a good image?
Why do you wanna look good?
Well questions above include all the three major parts of anyones life
Q1->>career,Q2->>social life,Q3->>health
Pretty much everything is derviative of these three.And in a mans life
Success ->Money->Good life->Happy family->happy wife.
good image->good social life->popularity->girls like you
good looks->girls like you
well all the three chains of dependacies end on some female .
Now if we disturb(unhappy) the last one then all your success,social life,looks is flown away in flood.
So,it is clear that all the men are guided by some females .
I think "I proved my point".
Monday, July 21, 2008
Thursday, July 17, 2008
What should "Teach India" do.....
Friends you all know about Times initiative Teach India.
This post is not a criticism, I completely support it and its a great step with good intentions.
Teach India will involve a lot of people and is very popular already.
But,where it lacks its aim is in approach to the poor children.I mean,we are approaching these children to teach and make them literate.But,literacy is not enough to make our country developed,we need education.
Education is not imparted by learning to count or write name,but by being socially acceptable and beneficial.This can and will, only be achieved by going to schools.
What teach India not doing is, making these children go to schools.They are just wasting money and resources already provided by government.After all, the "mid day meal" and free books,uniform,scholarships to all passed students,scholarships for girls etc etc. , is enough for them to learn life not ABC.
I mean , in Delhi atleast,there is enough for the children to go to school and get educated not just literate.
My frank opinion about Teach India is that its a good program but with a "smell of advertising".
These people could have taken up the task of mass admissions to schools or something like aiding already running schools.
But this is not the case,which makes me a bit itchy,but does not take my support from it.
And I appeal to all people going for teach India that dont just teach them to read and write but make them join a school.
This post is not a criticism, I completely support it and its a great step with good intentions.
Teach India will involve a lot of people and is very popular already.
But,where it lacks its aim is in approach to the poor children.I mean,we are approaching these children to teach and make them literate.But,literacy is not enough to make our country developed,we need education.
Education is not imparted by learning to count or write name,but by being socially acceptable and beneficial.This can and will, only be achieved by going to schools.
What teach India not doing is, making these children go to schools.They are just wasting money and resources already provided by government.After all, the "mid day meal" and free books,uniform,scholarships to all passed students,scholarships for girls etc etc. , is enough for them to learn life not ABC.
I mean , in Delhi atleast,there is enough for the children to go to school and get educated not just literate.
My frank opinion about Teach India is that its a good program but with a "smell of advertising".
These people could have taken up the task of mass admissions to schools or something like aiding already running schools.
But this is not the case,which makes me a bit itchy,but does not take my support from it.
And I appeal to all people going for teach India that dont just teach them to read and write but make them join a school.
Sunday, July 6, 2008
Getting high is Reason for existence of our world....
getting High is universalPeople being high is not just caused by drinks and drugs,but high is caused by everything good that happens to you.No you got it wrong, I am not equating happiness to getting high,remember the last time you got a new dress or new watch, just give it thought about things that hapened around the incident and I bet that you will not remember anything except the smell and color of the dress.Ok,now remember something big like selection in a competitive exam,new bike,latest cellphone or something even bigger and try to remember about the clothes that you worn,people you met,weatheror some other detail of that day.I am sure that you will be clueless about that,just similar to the hang over of a wild D.P. at the hostel or some rave.and everything you do gives you a high ,and you will wonder but even pain puts you on another level of high,remeber the time you had some twist of leg or some accident I am sure you will be clueless about anything that is not pain.and this you would have heard many times,Love and cosiness also puts you on a high,I will not elabotrate on this much.And,after every orgasm,you wll feel high of a lifetime,which is the reason of people loving sex so much.
Even power,money,fame has a high of its own,which is different from being happy.
Also,it is a universal truth that every thing that causes high causes addiction .
So, the conclusion is that every thing that happens to you has a narco-effect on you and your life.And that's why every thing we do is because of addiction to this high.This addiction is the reason for everything that happens in world.So addiction is not any bad thing but the reason for existence of this world.
Even power,money,fame has a high of its own,which is different from being happy.
Also,it is a universal truth that every thing that causes high causes addiction .
So, the conclusion is that every thing that happens to you has a narco-effect on you and your life.And that's why every thing we do is because of addiction to this high.This addiction is the reason for everything that happens in world.So addiction is not any bad thing but the reason for existence of this world.
Friday, July 4, 2008
Neck tie - a sign of slavery
Disclaimer:My own views ,nothing meant to anybody.
As if I care ;-) just joking....
So here I am again with my rebellious side,as you all know that we are being dominated by western culture and trends.Like live-in relations ,sci-fi movies,Malls(ya you are right I am frustated) etc etc.
But one tradition that is a perfect sign of our slavery to west is a Tie ,I am not saying that its wrong to wear a tie I am saying that people's attitude towards tie's is what potrays salvery.
I mean why people prefer tie with a shirt at an official affair rather than a "kurta",why tie wearing people are considered smart and "well-groomed" and a kurta potrays him as "what an oldie" or in some rude cases "ganwar" .
There is no official place,party(except garba nights),pubs where you have dress code of ethnic wear.No formal occassions except weddings see ethnic wear, in that too, many grooms prefer 3-piece rather than a sherwani and even guest's follow the trend.
This attitude of our's towards our own culture is what is the most pathetic, we look upon a culture of west over our own.
As if I care ;-) just joking....
So here I am again with my rebellious side,as you all know that we are being dominated by western culture and trends.Like live-in relations ,sci-fi movies,Malls(ya you are right I am frustated) etc etc.
But one tradition that is a perfect sign of our slavery to west is a Tie ,I am not saying that its wrong to wear a tie I am saying that people's attitude towards tie's is what potrays salvery.
I mean why people prefer tie with a shirt at an official affair rather than a "kurta",why tie wearing people are considered smart and "well-groomed" and a kurta potrays him as "what an oldie" or in some rude cases "ganwar" .
There is no official place,party(except garba nights),pubs where you have dress code of ethnic wear.No formal occassions except weddings see ethnic wear, in that too, many grooms prefer 3-piece rather than a sherwani and even guest's follow the trend.
This attitude of our's towards our own culture is what is the most pathetic, we look upon a culture of west over our own.
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
Relationships
Relationship is like a parternership with your gf.You may have to compromise on stuff also she will also have to.In a relationship you always see your partner as a source of comfort,peace,support and satistfaction.If you dont get that you will get frustated and dejected you will fall into useless discussions and end up in nothing.At this point your relationship is in a bit of trouble and you"need to talk"(to sort out not to break up).
Another problem arises when there is no expectations at all,some people believe in only giving and not expecting anything in back.Well in this case you might think that this is ideal case for love but,mind you it is easy to lose your identity in this case.You either follow the person blindly or simply lose youself.At this point she may like you the most but sooner or later you will start hating yourself.And you will start getting egoist and self proclaiming(speaking of youself only).
This is the worst condition.
So you need to strike a balance between you expectations and your submissions,
whole harmony of a relationship is dependent on this balance only.
Another problem arises when there is no expectations at all,some people believe in only giving and not expecting anything in back.Well in this case you might think that this is ideal case for love but,mind you it is easy to lose your identity in this case.You either follow the person blindly or simply lose youself.At this point she may like you the most but sooner or later you will start hating yourself.And you will start getting egoist and self proclaiming(speaking of youself only).
This is the worst condition.
So you need to strike a balance between you expectations and your submissions,
whole harmony of a relationship is dependent on this balance only.
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