World around us-real delhi

Recently,My family faced a crisis that our loved nanaji went missing.
He is still not found but...

For this reason I had to go to parts of delhi where I saw some harsh realities.

Poverty is not something which is not known but the impact of drugs and alcohol on poor,is unknown.

Eversince I thought that alcohol and drugs are just one reason for the existence of poor people,but I guess i was wrong ,its the only reason.

Places I went, I saw families living in jhuggi with only a 'dead crow' to eat and bunch of wood to cook.
But then by the side lies a man drunk or stoned .
Men in family could afford narco but not food.

Children were crying all around,some of them did not even had clothes but their fathers were enjoying the trip.

Women who spoke loud, were beaten to blood (trust me all this happened in front of me).
We talk about feminism and Gandhi and social reform etc etc. but all this comes down to one place jhuggi where none of these exist.

We know that in our metro life we have all the social cultures well organized but what about the world around us-the real delhi or real city.
Even the villages are not as bad as these places.

Now, some of you may say that government must be doing something.But actually,these places run the politics.
Maximum voting percentage is from here,so my dear people government is run by them so why would government try to remove their bank.

And we have already seen in "PAGE3" how social organization sell out children and women .so we cant even trust them.

Now where is the solution?
Its a golden question that you ask yourself everytime you see some poor begging or lying drunk or stoned.

Or just walk away like you have done till now.

Very first Rejection....

As many of my friends have already tasted the bitter taste of rejection in the recruitment process I would like share my experience with them ...

Well,at first we all are very enthusiastic about the interview/test We look forward to it just as we were sure of cracking JEE and entering IIT.

We are confident and cool about the process and selection.
Suddenly lightning strikes and we are stamped on the forhead "REJECTED"

after this stamp your whole world changes quickly and for few hours/days.

For this very little period you are left on same turn as you were when JEE results didnt meet your expectations.

You suddenly think which you never thought in the past few years...
I am incapable...
I am fucked
what are my parents gonna think...
Do i have a good future...

and history repeats itself...
and for few more days your confidence about your college and yourself is deterred

You are now feeling the same butterflies as you did and again and again...

So after making it to DCE its our first reality check after all the glory and dream ..
that our parents and relatives gave us...

and this reality is hard and Bitter so ...

All I have to say is that after thinking this much and writing this post I have realised that its just the "very first Rejection"...
and there are many to come .....

and finallly history repeats itself....
we get a break just as in the history ...
and eventually all the hard times are washed away

Women rule the world...

First thing is that I havent read "men are from mars and women are from venus".If there is any similarity then think of it as John Gray and I had a common great great great grandfather.

There are many people who support femminism and many are on the other side of the world,but actually there is nothing like femminism.Everything that we do is actually guided by women.
Men are actually fools trying make a statement everywhere they go .Reason for them to be such "I am the boss" is their male ego.

Now,let us see what exactly is the MALE EGO well male ego is nothing but a reaction of Female attraction(stop for moment and think deep ,its true).Just because he is attracted towards she,he needs "to prove himself","Be the man" etc. etc.

Well this is somewhat hard to understand that attraction results in ego not submission.This is what leads to the fact that men are fools.This is the reason why some crushes dont turn into relationships.

Men actually have no ego,no self,More than 99% of male species is under influnce of some emotion.Source of which is offcourse some female.

Now lets ask some questions to yourself..

Why you wanna be successful?

Why you wanna have a good image?

Why do you wanna look good?


Well questions above include all the three major parts of anyones life

Q1->>career,Q2->>social life,Q3->>health

Pretty much everything is derviative of these three.And in a mans life

Success ->Money->Good life->Happy family->happy wife.

good image->good social life->popularity->girls like you

good looks->girls like you

well all the three chains of dependacies end on some female .
Now if we disturb(unhappy) the last one then all your success,social life,looks is flown away in flood.

So,it is clear that all the men are guided by some females .
I think "I proved my point".

What should "Teach India" do.....

Friends you all know about Times initiative Teach India.
This post is not a criticism, I completely support it and its a great step with good intentions.
Teach India will involve a lot of people and is very popular already.

But,where it lacks its aim is in approach to the poor children.I mean,we are approaching these children to teach and make them literate.But,literacy is not enough to make our country developed,we need education.

Education is not imparted by learning to count or write name,but by being socially acceptable and beneficial.This can and will, only be achieved by going to schools.

What teach India not doing is, making these children go to schools.They are just wasting money and resources already provided by government.After all, the "mid day meal" and free books,uniform,scholarships to all passed students,scholarships for girls etc etc. , is enough for them to learn life not ABC.

I mean , in Delhi atleast,there is enough for the children to go to school and get educated not just literate.

My frank opinion about Teach India is that its a good program but with a "smell of advertising".
These people could have taken up the task of mass admissions to schools or something like aiding already running schools.
But this is not the case,which makes me a bit itchy,but does not take my support from it.

And I appeal to all people going for teach India that dont just teach them to read and write but make them join a school.

Getting high is Reason for existence of our world....

getting High is universalPeople being high is not just caused by drinks and drugs,but high is caused by everything good that happens to you.No you got it wrong, I am not equating happiness to getting high,remember the last time you got a new dress or new watch, just give it thought about things that hapened around the incident and I bet that you will not remember anything except the smell and color of the dress.Ok,now remember something big like selection in a competitive exam,new bike,latest cellphone or something even bigger and try to remember about the clothes that you worn,people you met,weatheror some other detail of that day.I am sure that you will be clueless about that,just similar to the hang over of a wild D.P. at the hostel or some rave.and everything you do gives you a high ,and you will wonder but even pain puts you on another level of high,remeber the time you had some twist of leg or some accident I am sure you will be clueless about anything that is not pain.and this you would have heard many times,Love and cosiness also puts you on a high,I will not elabotrate on this much.And,after every orgasm,you wll feel high of a lifetime,which is the reason of people loving sex so much.
Even power,money,fame has a high of its own,which is different from being happy.
Also,it is a universal truth that every thing that causes high causes addiction .
So, the conclusion is that every thing that happens to you has a narco-effect on you and your life.And that's why every thing we do is because of addiction to this high.This addiction is the reason for everything that happens in world.So addiction is not any bad thing but the reason for existence of this world.

Neck tie - a sign of slavery

Disclaimer:My own views ,nothing meant to anybody.
As if I care ;-) just joking....
So here I am again with my rebellious side,as you all know that we are being dominated by western culture and trends.Like live-in relations ,sci-fi movies,Malls(ya you are right I am frustated) etc etc.
But one tradition that is a perfect sign of our slavery to west is a Tie ,I am not saying that its wrong to wear a tie I am saying that people's attitude towards tie's is what potrays salvery.
I mean why people prefer tie with a shirt at an official affair rather than a "kurta",why tie wearing people are considered smart and "well-groomed" and a kurta potrays him as "what an oldie" or in some rude cases "ganwar" .
There is no official place,party(except garba nights),pubs where you have dress code of ethnic wear.No formal occassions except weddings see ethnic wear, in that too, many grooms prefer 3-piece rather than a sherwani and even guest's follow the trend.
This attitude of our's towards our own culture is what is the most pathetic, we look upon a culture of west over our own.

Relationships

Relationship is like a parternership with your gf.You may have to compromise on stuff also she will also have to.In a relationship you always see your partner as a source of comfort,peace,support and satistfaction.If you dont get that you will get frustated and dejected you will fall into useless discussions and end up in nothing.At this point your relationship is in a bit of trouble and you"need to talk"(to sort out not to break up).
Another problem arises when there is no expectations at all,some people believe in only giving and not expecting anything in back.Well in this case you might think that this is ideal case for love but,mind you it is easy to lose your identity in this case.You either follow the person blindly or simply lose youself.At this point she may like you the most but sooner or later you will start hating yourself.And you will start getting egoist and self proclaiming(speaking of youself only).
This is the worst condition.
So you need to strike a balance between you expectations and your submissions,
whole harmony of a relationship is dependent on this balance only.

Top notch Engineering colleges

People aspiring for IIT,DCE,NSIT,NIT etc. must read this .
you must be thinking that these colleges are the best,excellent placements etc.
yes they are and placements is also truth of nature,but if you be at these places you will know how the social life in these colleges work.
There are broadly 4 kinds of boys(girls are hard to find) in an engineering college(specifically)-
1.cool dudes-These people are most in numbers,ordinary silent behaviour,talking about games,football,movies and stuff similar to these.Average in studies,listens to teachers and try to obey.Mostly dont drink.
2.Metrosexuals-less in number,wearing 'Levis's',latest haircut and gelled,talk about cars and girls.These people are mainly seen with girls.And some of them may look like "gay" to you,with red shoes and pink kurti.They drink only at fests etc.
3.Rockers-have signature "goti"(beard that Amir wore in DCH) and mostly black T-shirts and canverse shoes,get a haircut twice a year,seen with i-pods or guitars.Seen head banging mostly and couple great with another rare species called rappers(they hide themselves).Drinkers and at rock fest see them near speaker moshing hard.They also enjoy marijuana(weed,ganja) etc.
4.Ghissues-mostly found at first bench,dress formally and sometimes weirdly.Talk only about future MBA,GRE,MS,Projects etc.If you want notes these are the best people to find.Some of them have good impact on girl community.These have hidden talents that show up at fests only.
These people also in some cases harm class unity.

getting Exploited in shopping malls

Well as you all know that in Delhi and other metro cities there is huge outburst of malls our favourite hangouts and great place to be.
But if you give it a thought some malls and their management exploit your money and time.
MRP war-It has been a big fight over MRP tag with court but still some shops you find "coke with glasses" and 5 rs higher than the MRP. You ask for bill, it will be a nearly fake bill with no batch number,nothing to indicate their fraud.
Parking-some malls force you to park your vehicles at higher rate than the Muinicipal rate at that place.They charge you 40 bugs for parking only,mean if you are student awhole days pocket money on just a visit to the place(including fuel).So why is there no standardisation just like petrol prices or atleast some area wise rate.
Quantity and quality-Again speaking of foodcourts ,I mean how cheap these people can get.You go to "Green woks" or something like that, if you order a pasta worth 70 bugs you will get 10 pieces of spiral pasta and 3 pieces of vegies(that too if you have added them as topping),and else is water.So you see yourself in mirror fooled.Similar is the case with many shops in foodcourts,even in CCD if you order their combo with cold coffee you will get a pattie kind of thing that is even worse than the ones sold by hawkers.So you get fooled in terms of both quality and quantity at these places.
This is even worse than robbery,you get robbed with a smile and "Thank you sir".
Security policies-Some malls have strange security procedures,they check your wallet,pat on your cheeks at the back,the reason is security check.They check for any eatables that can even scarcely fit you pocket.Security gaurds can see what's in your wallet or back pocket be it money,credit card and even a condom.There is no importance to your privacy.
Ok some people might accept this,but in East End mall Kaushambi(wave wala),you can not take your bags inside the mall and if you are on a two wheeler and carrying a helmet then go back home and come in car.I mean what kind of a rule is that you can not take your own belongings inside the mall(not theatre but the mall).

So people we need a revolution against this huge consumer reaction is needed .But in this country it is easy to raise voice against SEZ,Nuclear deal but not consumer rights.
If anyone finds himself robbed or cheated or humiliated dont abuse just call consumer forum