Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Relationships

Relationship is like a parternership with your gf.You may have to compromise on stuff also she will also have to.In a relationship you always see your partner as a source of comfort,peace,support and satistfaction.If you dont get that you will get frustated and dejected you will fall into useless discussions and end up in nothing.At this point your relationship is in a bit of trouble and you"need to talk"(to sort out not to break up).
Another problem arises when there is no expectations at all,some people believe in only giving and not expecting anything in back.Well in this case you might think that this is ideal case for love but,mind you it is easy to lose your identity in this case.You either follow the person blindly or simply lose youself.At this point she may like you the most but sooner or later you will start hating yourself.And you will start getting egoist and self proclaiming(speaking of youself only).
This is the worst condition.
So you need to strike a balance between you expectations and your submissions,
whole harmony of a relationship is dependent on this balance only.

1 comment:

seriously fun said...

fine but relations of every kind r about givin n takin , sometimes u give more take less or vice versa it all depends on da couple , u see , its their lyf n no its not dat if u sacrifice u'll lose ur identity or start hatin urself but sometimes only givin gives a lotta satisfaction n ur inner self is more happy 2 giv rather than receive